Finding inclusive wedding venues and vendors: where to begin
Finding the right venue and vendors is tricky for every couple. But the LGBTQIA+ community has an additional obstacle to overcome when choosing vendors: will they be inclusive?
Hiring an LGBTQIA+-owned business is always a great option because the people you are working with are more likely to connect with you and your partner and help you navigate any obstacles that might arise.
You do not need to choose only vendors that are personally part of the LGBTQIA+ community. There are also plenty of allies that own wedding businesses and would be honored to be a part of your special day. You just need to know what to look for!
What qualifies a venue or vendor as LGBTQ+ friendly?
Any venue or vendor can use “LGBTQ+ friendly” language on their website and social media platforms. But how do you know that they’re not only accepting but knowledgeable about LGBTQIA+ weddings and the unique complications that many couples have to face while planning?
When trying to determine if a vendor or venue is truly LGBTQIA+ friendly, take a close look at their website and social media posts. Here are a few questions you’ll want to ask yourself:
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Do they use inclusive language on their website and in their documents?
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Is their portfolio diverse?
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Do you see couples similar to you and your partner on their website?
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Are they not only inclusive of all couples but affirming of those couples as well?
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What are their values?
When looking at these websites, remember that we are always learning. If a vendor doesn’t have one of the things mentioned above, but you really like them, reach out and ask questions! What’s most important is creating a vendor team that is knowledgeable and ready to support you and your partner.
Is Virginia LGBTQ+ friendly?
Yes! As Virginia.org states, “Since 1969, our famous Virginia is for Lovers state slogan has inspired travelers from around the world to visit the Commonwealth. Today, Virginia is for all Lovers, and is a great destination for LGBTQ+ travelers.”
Like anywhere in the world, there will always be people who do not share the same values as you and your partner. To stay safe and ensure you have a great time in Virginia, do your research before traveling!
Inclusive Wedding Venues in Virginia
Albemarle CiderWorks is an orchard and tasting room surrounded by the beautiful natural landscape of North Garden, Virginia.
Cary Hill 1741 is an 18th-century estate with a gorgeous ballroom and parlor, outdoor space, and a charming 3-bedroom cottage.
The Berry Hill Resort is a national historic landmark with 6 unique spaces for your ceremony and reception, making it perfect for larger weddings.
Smith Mountain Manor is a breathtaking estate with luxurious furnishings, including a grand staircase, and even better mountain views.
Historic Mankin Mansion has an Italian garden, grand ballroom, and modern outdoor tent, and is located close to the Richmond airport, making it a fantastic option for out-of-town guests.
The John Marshall Ballrooms have vintage crystal chandeliers, hardwood dance floors, and can hold up to 150 and 360 guests.
LGBTQ+ friendly Vendors in Virginia
Photographers & Videographers
Hey, that’s me! I am an ally in Southwest Virginia who proudly serves the LGBTQ+ community. I help LGBTQ+ couples navigate the wedding industry by offering resources specifically catered to their needs and being a passionate and supportive ally in their corner. I’d love to photograph your wedding or elopement here in Virginia or around the world!
From Sophia’s website: “I am a Hispanic woman who is a part of the LGBTQ+ Community. I strongly believe everyone deserves to have their dream wedding day documented with beauty and authenticity. I have a love for people who, like me, are not afraid to be themselves.”
From Abigail’s website: “I have no problem being loud about the issues that matter to me! Being a queer woman, I’m most often outspoken about the LGBTQ+ community, and have worked and volunteered with Annapolis Pride since 2019. Beyond crafting a beautiful wedding video, I specialize in two things – education and connection.”
Planners
From Tyra’s website: “As a wedding planner and an LGBT bride, I understand the importance of finding vendors that align with your values and your vision. Part of our process involves getting to know YOU so that we can make easy recommendations so that your planner experience is worry-free.”
From Sophie’s website: “We LOVE love and we are obsessed with spreading it everywhere we go!! Events by Sophie is dedicated to fostering a loving, safe space for all of our clients and potential clients. We love to honor and highlight all of the things that make us unique!”
No matter who you are or who you love, you deserve the wedding day of your dreams, and I’m here to help you find the resources and vendors you need to make your day extraordinary. If you’re looking for more planning advice, head to my blog, or contact me to start chatting about your wedding!
